Netflix and chill is an urban slang for casual sex.
First I have to issue a disclaimer: in no way am I insinuating that I am innocent or perfect. I may or may not have been on a Netflix and chill date of my own. I don’t know, I am just ranting about this new world order that I do not like nor agree with.
A while ago, I received a whatsapp message from a ‘friend’ and after we had been talking for a while he asked
FRIEND: DO YOU WANNA HANG OUT ON FRIDAY EVENING/NIGHT AT MY HOUSE?
MY REPLY: I AM NOT COMING TO YOUR HOUSE TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU
Well, some people like to mince words, I used to belong in that crew, caring what people thought or would say about me. Now I do not care anymore, I cannot shout!
Now, this friend denied that this invitation was not about sex and he appeared serious with it. The issue however is, we don’t know what to believe anymore. Whatever happened to movie dates, meals and walks? What happened to wooing a lady and getting attention, dating and then ‘chilling’?
Men seem to have come to a position in their heads where they think snatching sex from unsuspecting women is the way to go. Gone are the days of wooing a lady even if your sole purpose is to get sex, these days you’re invited over for ‘Netflix’and bam stuff is being shoved in your direction.
The unfortunate part of this new world order is that we women accept it; we condone it and basically believe that a guy who has no need of us but for sex finds us attractive and that’s OK (being attractive is not enough… story for another day)
I am I no way bad mouthing sex between two consenting adults I just feel that women who subscribe to this way of life are spoiling market for us.
When some other girls get propositioned and say no, they are looked at like the crazy ones and you begin to ask yourself am I actually crazy?
Please ask me why I am ranting? Netflix and chill all you want but don’t bring it near me . I am not interested in Netflix, let’s buy a TV together and put in our house and chill forever. In other words I am not available for casual sex abeg, I’m looking for husband.
According To Larz